An article, or "how to" guide about approaching women could be summed up with just one phrase:       "Be yourself."

That's it. Nothing else to write. The gist of the article is right there and normally, the topic could end there.

But the problem for some guys is, they tend to break away from what works and end up making things much harder than they need to be. It takes a bit of courage to approach a woman and ask for a phone number or for a date, and some men are better at it than others.

Aside from approaching women (which we'll get into in a moment), you should always be yourself in most life situations. Historical data shows that people have much more respect for those who truly represent their own character -- as opposed to those who hide behind an image, or manufacture false personas. It is important to note that men must be satisfied and confident with themselves in order to pursue any endeavors. This includes pursuing women.

Returning to the idea of men approaching women -- guys have always been socially nutured to understand that approaching a woman is inevitable. At some point in your life, you will have to find the courage to walk up to a beautiful woman and ask her out. Depending on your personality, you may find this easier to do in a social atmosphere like a club or a bar. Other men look for one-on-one situations where they can work their magic.

A lot of men find the entire process nerve-racking because they don't know what to expect. Rejection is not the desired result, but a very distinct possibility.

Much to the dissatisfaction of men, we can't control whether women will say "yes", or "no", when we approach them. But here are 6 important tips you can use to help increase your chance of success when you do decide to step up to the plate:

1. You're No Talker. - If you don't possess the gift of gab, practice your approach beforehand. Since you have no idea when and where you may meet the next beautiful woman, you should practice as much as possible. But don't try to be too cute. A simple introduction starting with the word "Hello", never fails.
2. Avoid the Bedroom. - It is never recommended that guys sleep around without committing themselves to one woman. However, if that's your only reason for approaching -- say so. Many women won't yield to a sex-only relationship, but most will respect you for being honest. If you're serious about getting to know the woman, don't use sex jokes or sexual innuendo as an ice breaker. Since you don't whether or not she'll be turned off by it, there is no need to test the waters. Chances are, she won't be offended by the subject of sex -- but rather with the fact that you used it before getting to know her.
3. Float Like A Butterfly - Being a little nervous about putting yourself out there is normal. Be assured that any woman would be nervous wreck if the tables were turned and she had to step up to you. But women aren't taught to approach men, so the ball is in your court.

   If you're not the extroverted type who can talk to anyone at anytime -- practice your approach in the mirror. Look at yourself and speak the words (out loud) you plan to say. If possible, ask a female friend to help you by playing the role of the woman you plan to approach.