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Madamoiselle
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Sex with your ex of 4 years?
What does it mean when a man continues to have sexual affairs with his ex but claims he is ready to move on and meet a good, serious woman that he can commit to? She was his college sweetheart, he thought she was the one, got her a ring, never proposed since he fell out of love, but gave her the ring as a "friendship ring" instead. Claims he doesn't see himself with her as his wife but continues to call on her for sex for an entire year, claiming he hadn't met anyone and he has needs... is it immaturity perhaps, not know what he wants?
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What does it mean when a man continues to have sexual affairs with his ex but claims he is ready to move on and meet a good, serious woman that he can commit to?


It means he has not grown up yet and isnt truly a man. Mature, respectable men dont sleep around just because they can.


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Claims he doesn't see himself with her as his wife but continues to call on her for sex for an entire year, claiming he hadn't met anyone and he has needs


It is sad to admit, but many (i wont even say most) men will take free sex if a woman is giving it up. Yep, even married men (if they can get away with it)
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Madamoiselle
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I agree, thanks for confirming.


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What does it mean when a man continues to have sexual affairs with his ex but claims he is ready to move on and meet a good, serious woman that he can commit to?


It means he has not grown up yet and isnt truly a man. Mature, respectable men dont sleep around just because they can.


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Claims he doesn't see himself with her as his wife but continues to call on her for sex for an entire year, claiming he hadn't met anyone and he has needs


It is sad to admit, but many (i wont even say most) men will take free sex if a woman is giving it up. Yep, even married men (if they can get away with it)


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and women dont?...a very one-sided opinion here...for women who also keep sexual ties to past lovers or just needs its percieved as helpless while the men are predators.


Ask more about his past...there is still an emotional connection to lovemaking which many still deny (until they get hurt)
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