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Dating for Single Parents
How do single parents get out and date if they don't have a regular babysitter or family or friends to hook them up? I'm curious about how men feel about starting a serious relationship with a woman that has children. Do men ever seek out women with children to jump start the new family? Do these women seem more desperate than other women?
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I've dated a few women with kids and it's all good. The benefit is that you get to see how she interacts with her child and the love involved. If she's solid there then she can love you properly as well. If she treats her kids like a burden then on day you'll be getting the same.

I think my dating life hasn't changed much since my son (3.5yrs) has come into the picture because I was lucky enough to find a very special woman who was cool with it. Not everyone is cool with dealing with the drama that can come with attached "exes"

Dating really isn't that hard. If someone doesn't accept your child they're gone. Simple as that, your child is your seed...%50 of your biology and loyal to a fault if you show them love. Nowadays some people view relationships as disposable so I'm not banking on anyone who cannot accept my relationship with my son.

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Man... you just asked a question that will take years to answer! I know plenty of dudes who date women with kids but they would rather not. Especialy when they want to have kids of their own(if they dont already)

I know women who leave kids with parents, grandparents, or what have you... just so they can go to the clubs.

But I do think women with kids are a little more "accepting". EVen though they try to watch out for men they don't want to be a bad influence on their kids, they sometimes will bend over backwards to keep a man around.
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I sometimes think that men prefer women with children.They seem to think that they are more desperate.You do not hear many women with little boys say that they do not need a man. Therefore, that whole "independent woman"thing that brothas seem to detest goes out of the window.Also, dhe is a lot more likely to be domesticated, she will cook and stay home,she is less likely to want to go out(baby sitter issues?).Also ,it is a big stroke to a mans ego to feel like a hero.He feels that way when he comes in and "rescues"this single woman.Now she owes him.I myself,do not have or want kids.I will not marry a man who has or wants kids.I do tell men with kids upfront that there is a cap on our relationship potential.The sky is not the limit.I love my freedom,flexibility,disposable income,and privacy.I will not allow a kid to disrupt that!
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I wouldnt date no women with kids. You already know where thats going to lead. Part time baby daddy is in progress. Your going to hear sympathy stories on how her baby daddy left her, he aint taking care of the kids, he aint paying child support, and shes basically looking for a sugar daddy to pimp. How are yall going to get intimate when you have kids running, screaming, and hollering around the house. Then you have to deal with jealous baby daddy's who still feel thats their "property"..I just wouldn't do it..unless you're a charity case, I'm certainly not.
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what i can suggest for single parents is to get out of their box and give them selves a break..they could go out for a date to someone whom they feel they're happy and comfortable with..it's the best way of moving on...
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