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VickanS
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Oh Lord, Nique is quoting movies!

But that does make sense. I've always used simple stuff when approaching women. Never anything flashy. No rhymes or nothing crazy.

I just think that once the initial stuff is over with (the hellos, the how are yous), a woman will want to see where you are coming from. I think how a man is perceived depends on state of mind the woman is in.
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Nique, in today's generation of women it just do not work. Just today I made a stop at the store to get some milk on my way home. I seen this nice looking young lady, nice hair, sexy body, beautiful face. It seem like everywhere I went in the store, I bumped into her. Now I am not the tyoe of man that will talk a bunch of garbage to a woman. So I decided to say hello. She looked at me like I had my fly opened or something. The expression on her face was like I was beneath her standards. And all I said was hello and kept walking, I didn't even try to stop her to have a conersation. Not to be lowing my own horn, I consider myself to be an attractive man in his 30's, has a very good job, not a thug what-so-ever. What's the problem?
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Yes Saphire did a good Job **Kudos. It's not odd that ecjr23 would ask why "good girls like bad boys" Listen, No real woman admits to choosing a thug. Every Woman knows there is just nothing sexier than a Fine, intelligent, hard working, respectable, purposful, black man however there is a limited supply.
Im sure it's flattering to any woman when she's been sought with a subtle glance and a million dollar flirtacious smile to go with it. This definately initiates an interest without pulling out old tricks that may have worked as a teenager. A woman needs to immediatly feel desire, confidence, and manly strength seeping out of your pores as you stimulate her mind with somthing interesting to say.
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I like that Ruth. Your description makes me wanna go out and spend more time concentrating on finding a real sista instead of trying to be smooth all the time. Like you said some sistas look for those smooth bad boys (i played the role before) and they get all the play.
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But the smooth bad boys are the ones that makes it hard for the REAL brothas to talk to any attractive sistas. And as far as stimulating a woman's mind, I have no problem in that department.
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everybody here has made great points...what we must really remember is that when men approach women we should be aware of the kind of women that we like as companions, friends and such...just because a woman looks good to us doesnt mean its a perfect match...

i treasure my good friendships with sistas...and all i did was say hello...no games, no tricks...others wanted some smooth line which sent them to the flashy ones...which did not work out...and i do MEAN friendships...some women can be friends with men...men just have to be aware of it....:^)
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ecjr23 wrote:
But the smooth bad boys are the ones that makes it hard for the REAL brothas to talk to any attractive sistas. And as far as stimulating a woman's mind, I have no problem in that department.




Because the plain truth is that like the laws of supply and demand, this types of men are responding to what too many sisters want. The onus on just casually meeting and greeting is too twisted. To just meet someone shouldn't be a job interview. A brotha doesn't owe a sister that much deference. How much confidence and any other "expectations" that they may prefer in men can come "after" the exchange of pleasantries. The problem with too many of the brothers is that we've allowed society -and this includes our women- to "solely" define ; and manipulate the rules of social interaction. Personally, I feel an "expectation" of a sister to be gracious and kind whenever she interacts with an approaching brother. She don't got to MARRY him!..lol But the social interaction and more importantly; expectations are just too one-sided. A little grace ladies will go a long way on your parts. Believe me, it makes a man feel good to have his advances fill acknowledged this way. Even if you don't "feel" or "like" him. This way at its worst all parties still feel good about themselves and the other party. Too many of my sisters don't feel they have to submit to this. I say if the onus is placed on a man to be "manly" i.e. confident, then the expectation of "grace" i.e. lady-like, feminine, or compassion should be embraced by women.
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If i could pick his attair? well, nice slacks not baggy jeans. dress shirt not a white-t. Dreads not old braids. older not young. i'm 20 he has to be either 26 to 32. I cant stand a hood boy. no not never. I like a man with class and maturity. I would love for his to approach me with coolness and a topic to talk about.
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Who Are You Approaching ......

ecjr23 wrote:
Then why do some women turn there attention from a brother like that, then be all up in the face of the brother that everyone knows is involved in some illegal activities??


and what's causing you to approach the FEMALES you approach. Is it their slamming bodies or their overall demeanor and how they exert themselves with confidence.

FEMALES preferring the brothers involved in illegal activities are not WOMEN, they're not little girls.
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