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Interracial Dating
I wanted to talk more about something Hmurchison hit on the the Books & Movies thread.


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Interracial relationship don't bother me. However I simply like to observe the "qualifiers" that people state for their reasons. Frankly who you date is who you date with no qualifiers needed but it speaks volumes when someone says "well I couldn't find the ideal xxxx man/woman"


I think the biggest problem with interracial relationships have to do with this statement. Those, "qualifiers" are what piss people off. Granted, there are some sistas who don't care why you date a white woman. Just the fact that she has white skin is enough. But if a black man or woman say that date outside the race because "they can't find good black people" then I think that's crazy. I think they are making an excuse for their true feelings, which seem to be ... they have a problem with self/race-hatred.

Don't know if anybody ever watched the show Girlfriends on UPN. But one of the sistas (i forget who) started dating a white dude. After that, a lot of sistas stopped watching the show. A friend of mine said that all the black guys that had been on the show who dating the sistas, all had issues. One liked sex too much; one cheated; one was lazy and could not keep a job. Then a white man comes along and is a savior and marries one of the sistas.

I ain't never had a problem with interracial relationshps. But i can't stand it when a black person says they do it because there ain't no black people to date.
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