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Is it possible for years of inconsistency and drama to make a couple's love stronger?
Need insight, however, I will be brief with the details. Here goes: They met in college, dated, fell in love, he walks in on her cheating with his teammate. As a result, they separate for 1 year and remarkably, he returns to her, she takes him back of course. He has forgiven her for cheating but hasn't forgotten. Senior year, they get an apartment together, he gets a ring with intentions of proposing yet by the end of the 1 yr lease, they go their own separate ways due to arguments and him seeking out revenge by entertaining a 4 month long affair with a young lady out of state. So the ring is now classified as a friendship ring, he never proposed and claims she is not the woman he sees himself with until death does them apart. Now, despite the break-up post moving out, he continues to seek her out for physical needs, she of course recieves him. He meets me, we're introduced by mutual friends so he supposedly stops seeing his supposed ex for his supposed physical needs. We become close, then committed, then intimate. She announces that she is pregnant and will keep the baby since during college she miscarried and aborted his children twice and thus wishes to keep the 3rd pregnancy. He's devasted, studying for the GMAT not ready to be a dad. I did not take the news with a grain of salt, it was extremely hard to bear the thought of another woman carrying the man I fell in love with's child. I gave him hell for it. She disappeared for about 3 months, they argued constantly re: her decision. There's a possibility it may not be his, vice versa since they did not use protection when intimate. We were suppose to move in together since my lease was up Dec 15. On Dec 5, he breaks up with me, claiming his decision was not easy but all him and I did was argue about him becoming a "baby daddy" and how I will not become entangled in a Jerry Springer episode. He tells me he never loved me, he made a mistake and plans to get a house and be a family with her. Do couples that endured so much turmoil have a chance of succee
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QuickView: Is it possible for years of inconsistency and drama to make a couple's love stronger? - Madamoiselle 12/24/2008 01:17
 The question cut off. Question is: With couples that have en... - Madamoiselle 12/24/2008 01:23
 He meets me, we're introduced by mutual friends so he suppos... - VickanS 1/2/2009 15:47
 Thank you. It all thumbs down to his naivte and yes, him imm... - Madamoiselle 1/2/2009 15:57
 I think that it depends on the type of relationship that you... - Mrs. Payne2 2/1/2009 07:53
 Educated and Objective advice! - TT4kev189 2/8/2009 07:14
 The problem with so many relationships is that both of you a... - thedrknghtno1 2/26/2009 09:48
 
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