My Girlfriend Fakes Orgasms
This question comes from a guy who is being plagued by his partner's acting routines during sex. How should he handle it?
Question from Carl:
Thanks for answering my question. I'm sure you've been asked this a million times, but I'm curious:
The woman I've been dating for the past couple of months is great. We started having sex weeks ago and I noticed that she seems to exaggerate a bit when it comes to being pleasured. I guess what I'm saying is -- it seems like she's faking it.
I know women sometimes fake orgasms, but I don't know whether I should be upset with her over dramatization, or simply ignore it.
The Brothas Response:
Well Carl, you're right -- women do fake orgasms and they often do so to protect men's fragile egos. Women sometimes overestimate their acting abilities, not realizing they're sending a crystal clear message to the man. But men sometimes overestimate their perception of when a woman is faking, which frequently results in guys being more insecure than they probably should.
In your case, good old fashioned communication will ease most of your worrying. Is it likely that you and your partner didn't discuss your sexual desires and/or appetites before sliding under the sheets?
Consider these 3 observations:
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